BIBZ - intricacies of life!

Having a successful relationship is like driving
a car at night. You can only see as far as your headlights shine up ahead, and
you can make the entire trip that way. When you see a bump in the road or have
to take a detour just to avoid a major disagreement, you simply make a mutually
beneficial adjustment and keep on going.

We all need to go through the ups and downs,
experience the traumas and revel in the successes of the relationship in order
to grow. It is just the way to get there.

Now, when the relationship is strained, it is
sometimes difficult to be ourselves. There are times that you may feel that if
you don’t do what she wants you to do, she will be upset and become even more
distant. This is where agreements are important. We need to allow each other to
make our own choices. First for ourselves and then for the relationship.

We should definitely give each other a room to
grow. No one can grow in the shade. If you are always hovering at each other, you are literally smothering the love that could be yours. It tires us
down and we just have to shout for space!

There are just times that you will need to sit
down and have some time to be alone with your thoughts.

Even though it may appear that you are both from
different planets because you share so little in your communication, it is
possible for you to lay down your guns. Seek peace and choose to travel in the
same orbit. Working together to identify your differences benefits a good
relationship. Always remember: If God brings you to it, He will bring you
through it!

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